Realms as they are for me and many others are unplayable. i makeing a legit survial realm for me and my freinds but we cant play because the lag and the crashes every 1-3 hours role back and lose us 5-30 mins of progress. at this point we dont even want to play anyone ive done hours of googleing for awnsers and nothing.

Heres what i think is happening. 

Realms cant handle 10 people. im paying for the 10 one so i can play with all my freinds but u recommend either buying the 2 player realm or not haveing 10 people on.

Simulation distance should be knocked down lower i feel like it would fix the crashes but im not super smart when it comes to that stuff. 

UPDATE 10/23/22
Something i found out is if you leave and rejoin before it crashes it can sometimes get rid of the lag and make a backup. this is moments before it crashed i left and try and stop it but it ended up crashing and me the other people ended up waiting around 15 mins to load back in and it still reroled about 10 mins i dont know what else to add to this bug report to try and fix this please work with me and ask any qustions

1. Playing survival realm like normal with players.
2. Lag will start to make blocks not break and mobs will not move or will stutter (moments before crash)
3. Then realm will crash and bring everyone to the disconnected screen.