Ever since before the update of 1.16.100 I have not been able to access a realm. my friend who created it cannot. it said at first pending update within 48 hours. we have received the update and still can't access it. it's been 48 hours and we want to play. We have tried everything to get it to work. like resetting. getting rid of the world and re doing it. the owner of the realm reinstalling minecraft nothing.